
onefootnaked asked:
We have about $50,000 worth of debt and to save money we are living with my parents. The debt is due to his school and car accidents that he has caused, none of it is mine. I have been the main “bread winner” for a year and a half because of him going to school. I don’t mind, but it’s like he doesn’t even appreciate it. There have been 2 times that he has spent a lot of money without even telling me after. 1) He spent $700 on a toy airplane and 2) He spent $290 on a cell phone, when he could have gotten one for free. I have told him that we need to talk to each other about purchases over $50 at this point in our lives. He agreed, but now it is more like I am rasing a son instead of in a relationship with my husband. He bought the $290 phone when I needed my breaks fixed. Every time I bring up our financial situation to him he blows up and ask if I am just trying to make him feel bad about the debt. It’s just reality. I am going crazy! I don’t know what to do. I’m sorry this was so long
DWAYNE