I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man living together for close to a year. He had to have back surgery 5 months ago after an accident and his recovery has been long and painful. He did not receive disability from the state or his company so we suffered financially. He lost his car, so we have had to share my car. He is back to work now but they are coming down really hard on him. His son is a typical teenager who says he hates him is threatening to run away drop out of school. The rest of his family can’t be bothered. Because of all this our relationship has suffered. We fight a lot and nasty things have been said both ways. He’s miserable and nothing seems to bring him out of it. He ends up taking it out on me I resent it. He feels like a failure and I don’t know what to say or do anymore. I love this man very much I know that things can get better if we survive this difficult time, but I’m afraid that if we continue like this we’ll never get there! Help!!
EDWINA
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The wrong working decisions it took one year and months for me when times were hard and thats.
For all this and he will get better than he will say after all this and months for you have to pay for you really want to ask yourself this was he dont feel like man with everything at once maybe you also have to make things work you also have been in the provider right now.
Take him to the Lord. He needs the Lord at this particular time more than ever. And so do you. And so does that teenage son who you say is typical, but he is not typical. Typical is not hating your parents and he needs a relationship with his son to correct this. He has raised a rebellious child and that is not good. I assume you are the second wife and this is a problem to that child. Children want one father and one mother and no extras.
A merry heart does good like a medicine; but a broken spirit drys the bones. Proverbs 17:22 This man that you love has a broken spirit and only the Lord heals broken spirits. You can’t do it and you have tried. His family cannot do it and they have not tried. A broken spirit is only healed by the Lord.
He may even be blaming God for all of this which is often the case. Three (3) things we must have in life and they are
1. Peace with God
2. Peace with ourself
3. Peace with others
I’ve said all of this in love and because you said that you love this man very much. If you do, then introduce him to the Lord.
Repenting of sins is a wonderful thing. It cleanses the entire being of a person. And only Jesus can do this for us.
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